Saturday, January 30, 2010

Tashi King's Story

As many of you know by now, Tashi Nicole King has been diagnosed with Stage IV Breast Cancer. You may remember Tashi from Boulder High School (Class of 1993) or her brother Amani (Class of 1987). Tashi married after college and moved to Nicaragua where her daughter, Xola Rose (pronounced Zola) was born in May of 2003. Xola was born with a genetic disorder called Trisomy 13. Eighty percent of babies born with this disorder die within their first month. However, thanks to Tashi’s unrelenting spirit and her determination to do everything possible to care for her, Xola lived happily until she was almost 5 years old. On Feb. 27, 2008 Tashi held Xola for the last time; roughly a year and a half before being diagnosed with cancer.

On August 15, 2009 Tashi married Bryan Patrick Madden. Bryan has been a tremendous support to Tashi since losing her daughter and they were looking forward to starting a family of their own. They were saving to start building a house on their mountain property outside of Boulder. However, these plans have all been put on hold due to the cancer.

Tashi had a single mastectomy to remove the tumor in her breast, lymph node dissection and a port placed, during which time her lung collapsed and she had emergency surgery. The cancer has spread to her liver and was found in several additional lymph nodes. Currrently, Tashi is undergoing an intensive course of chemotherapy, which will be followed by radiation and likely more surgery.

In the meantime, Tashi continues to make payments on her deceased daughter’s medical bills. In addition, Tashi’s own medical bills are beginning to pile up and this is only the beginning. Unfortunately her student health insurance policy is limited and has almost reached it’s maximum payout. This means that Tashi will effectively be without insurance coverage.

Only one week after having the mastectomy, Tashi went back to work because of her financial situation. My hope is that through people’s generous donations we can raise enough money for Tashi to focus on getting well rather than worrying about mounting medical bills. She continues to attend Naropa University where she is finishing a Master’s degree in Somatic Counseling Psychology.

If you are able, please make a donation to the Tashi King Fund. Even if you can only afford $10 in these difficult economic times, please contribute. Any amount, whether its $10 or $100 will help. Forward this email to anyone who may know Tashi or Amani, those who have been touched by breast cancer, fellow women, mothers, and/or anyone else who might care. Thank you so much for your support!

Note: The Tashi King Fund is an account established solely for the purpose of paying Tashi and Xola's medical bills and current health needs. Donations are directly deposited into this account via Laine's PayPal account. These donations are not tax-deductible. However, we are in the process of applying for 501 (c) (3) status which will make donations tax-deductible. This can take months to get, and Tashi's needs are pressing, so in the meantime we created the Tashi account.

1 comment:

Christos said...

Blessings to you Tashi I have full faith that you will recover. we all know this is temporary and how we live is the true example we give. I have always wondered how you were and what you were up to. Now I know and I am glad I know now. I am glad I met you and Xola along my path in New Haven. You are a great friend. Till this day you are like a magical dragonfly that whispers to my soul to never give up. You have many gems to offer humanity and you will deliver them. Keep faith in Jah and THY WILL BE DONE. Miss you my friend!Peace Christos